I love poetry and verse, just the fact that it means something individual.

I create my won poetry which i have done  since i was a child, not so many kids sit in their bedroom writing poems thse  days ll!

Poetry and verse comes purely from inspiration, something that occurs and happens for no reason, something that jus sparks off a feeling or emotion.

http://www.write-it-your-way.com

Hey i love fancy dress, love being able to dress up in what ever it is that floats ya boat, being able to let yourself go more than usual, does anyone out there have any good stories on fancy dress? please feel free to leave your messages.

tell me about your pet hates! what gives you the creeps or scares you senseless?   see my site  http://www.itsworthasking.com for more details, but i would love to see your messages here in my blog! Tell me what you dislike, i hate balloons, heights, spiders…………..balloons being my worst!

alison

Are agony aunts really necessary?When we have something on our minds, who do we turn to? Do we turn to close family?- Who try and make time for you, and try and listen and form an opinion before you’ve finished – then tell the rest of the family what you have said! Are family members the right people to turn to with something embarrassing or hurtful? Do they understand? Would they let you unburden your troubles without saying “I told you so!” after you’ve finished? I don’t know, and that is the problem that we find when faced with a problem that is bothering us, do we risk it and talk freely and openly knowing that there was a good 99% chance that your ‘little problem’ could become world knowledge? I personally have a theory that telling all between close family members leads to ‘come backs’ later on. At some point the issue will arise again, it has to, that’s the way it works, families have a memory like an elephant where a confidence was been left. It will come back to haunt you!!But…… is the idea of writing or emailing a problem to a complete stranger the way to go? Again, this is a question that can be answered completely individually, some would laugh, joke at the prospect of asking and even worse – paying for advice, some would see you as ooooh ‘billy no mates!’ – “poor old Fred, no one to talk to – aw!”……. some would pity you for prostituting your problems! How should we feel about it? Do we really need the services of agony aunts and uncles?Should we always turn to a friend, a mate who is just dying for a bit of gossip, something really juicy to get their teeth into and their ears twitching? Sitting there, cup of char in hand and desperate for a good old fashioned bit of chat, offering apparently good solid advice that they of course would use themselves! Yea right!!!The day came years ago when I asked a magazine agony uncle for advice, and yes he replied! Amazingly quite quickly too, though looking back I now realise my topic of questioning was rather expected, you know the old ‘mistress’ question, he answered me as I knew he would – get shut! He spoke very honestly and unbiastly to me, which I could accept from a stranger, probably easier than I could have accepted from someone I was close to, as with they, I wonder if they are saying the truth or what I want to hear or even worse, something to get you into more mischief! At least with an agony aunt/uncle one knows they have nothing to gain from their advice, other than maybe a small fee if they charge…..I trust people who give me their assurance they speak from their own experiences, from genuine life trials, and therefore…..in conclusion to my question….Do we really need agony aunts/uncles?……my personal opinion is…… if you are lucky enough to have one true confident, one true honest unbiased shoulder to cry on, hang on to them, tight! As the need for agony aunts are the real deal! We all need a friendly chat, a straight talking opinion, and a solid genuine advice source…. yes agony aunts are necessary!!! http://www.itsworthasking.com

ask Alison

Internet Relationships 

When I first became single I thought ‘oh god, the local blokes are a joke!’ …where do you meet decent men when I don’t travel far? THE INTERNET!

Yes, get online and search through the millions of drop-outs, but that is what everyone else thinks, yes that internet dating are no-hopers or sad geezers who don’t get out much, but this isn’t the case, no………the high majority are at work!

Of course there are the odd exceptions to the theory that online dating is wonderful, the dates that are ooooh boring, oooooh dull and ooooooh snoring!!

But, the blokes I have met online have all been really nice, lovely men who are like me, in need of someone special, and maybe they just can’t find what they are looking for in their own town!

It worked so well for me that after talking to em…quite a few, and meeting two in person, my partner and I who yes…met online ….are living together…..dated oooooh across the sea even……the Irish one, for eighteen months, then he moved over to England this year!

So in conclusion to the questions people ask about internet dating, I do believe it works, it has for me anyway, as long as you are safe, sensible and do everything correct……. I personally do know the right way to meet and greet online dates and since I have met a few in the flesh, become friends with a lot, had unforgettable fun, and fell in love all within eighteen months, no tears, no upset, no anger, no hassles! Just really truly lovely people who made me laugh, happy and em horny and able to give affection again.

If anyone would like some help or advice on internet dating please visit: www.itsworthasking.com

Never judge anyone for trying to find a friend, lover, intimate partner or more, however they decide to look for them, at least they are trying! No one wants to spend a life alone! And I am living proof that after oooh em quite a few bad relationships there is light at the end of the love tunnel, pardon the pun!